If you haven't seen the movie Harvey, you are missing out!  I think tht's one of my most favorite shows on the entire planet.  It makes me so happy when I watch it.  Elwood P. Dowd is the perfect guy, in my opinion, because he is always so generous and gracious to everyone and he is never too shy to give out compliments.  And there are so many things in the movie that you can use in your life.  Elwood knows that in order to ave veryone friendly around you, you need to treat them with the utmost respect and also with as much kindness as you can.  He is always thinking of other people (even if it is a 6'3 1/2" rabbit).  I think we could all learn a lesson from Elwood P. Dowd.  Speak with a gentle voice, give flowers whenever you can, and always offer your card.